There are three main types of communication:

1. Writing

2. Speaking

3. Listening

Most Leaders- It is common for leaders to excel in one or two of the three types of communications.  As a small group leader it is important to strive to master all three to some degree.  Though it seems like speaking would be the only necessary skill to perfect you cannot discredit listening and writing as valuable tools in leading your small group.  The reason Small Group Leaders must be well rounded in all three areas of communications is simple.  As a leader you want to connect with your people any way you can but during the limited group time you may not be given an opportunity to form solid relationships with everyone.  This is where the skills of listening and writing come in.

Writing! – Take time to email you group and new members.  Don’t send a form email but send a heartfelt vision casting email.  One that expresses what you feel could be if you all would follow the plan God has for your lives.  Use written words to communicate a passion for your group and the people you lead.  It is the perfect way to express your heart in a way you may not be able to face to face.

Listening- I am convinced the best way to build a relationship with someone is not to say a bunch of things to them but allow then to say a bunch of things to you.  This gives you the opportunity to digest their life story and helps you better understand what makes them tick.  Besides, people like to talk about themselves.  As a leader you should learn to listen to others and talk about yourself a little less.  Less is more and a real leader understands this.  Just Listen!

When a leader begins to improve on the writing and listening aspect of communications then the

speaking talents get stronger.  Writing and Listening serve to strengthen leaders speaking skills.

be motivated to perfect your writing, listening and speaking techniques.  As you do you will see your

leadership techniques improve as well.